Pleased that someone has gone to the trouble of preparing you a meal on a platter? Gifting you a birthday cake? Delivering you soup when you're feeling under the weather? Sharing a tray of cookies with you and your family?
You'll certainly be attentive to returning their pot/platter/tray . . . BUT will you return the pot/platter/tray empty? Not if you're Armenian! If you're Armenian, you'd NEVER return a platter empty . . . Never!
You tell Marash Girl!